Asked by clean girl..always 24/7
as a career, i am thinking about going into the medical field and becoming a medical assistant..at santa ana college, they offer a certificate that is only 15 units..right now, i am taking a beginning terminology class that is only three units..if i decide to go for a certificate, i only need four more classes then hopefully i graduate and get my certificate then hopefully start working so i can learn how to financially support myself..then work part time then go to a vocational school part time to obtain my degree...last year, my cousin from india was in the usa taking a course for work..i spent three days with him..before he left for india, he kept asking and persuading me to visit india..is it because he wants to spend more time with me..my last trip to india was in december 2003..all my friends tell me i should go before i get i really busy...my dad told me the polite thing to do is when a cousin asks u more than once to visit, u should go... he called us in november when my sister went to meet him and said he was expecting to see me as well, then i told him i was busy then he said "omg! everyone is busy..my friend told me the more i keep saying i am busy, they will think i am making it as an excuse and i dont want to go...i dont want him to think that..he asked my mom when i can come to india and she said during my holidays..what should i do...i know for a fact that once i get my certficate, i will be busy looking for a job then working plus going to school..he called me in october 2006 and started complaining i stopped calling and writing and and i told him i got busy then he suggested i call and write once in a while to catch up..